I think she should start with shagging herself - because if she doesn't know what gets her off, how can she expect anyone else to figure it out? (Or if she does know, and tells these multitudes of lovers, and they ignore her, then she needs to rethink her selection mechanism.)
And yes, sex is about more than orgasms... but they're pretty damn important, in my opinion. If there is sex, and there is not at least one orgasm per person, then I myself would file that under "not-so-great sex" and resolve that next time better be soon and spectacular. (But maybe I am just spoiled by only shagging a girl?)
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Date: 2008-02-01 08:33 am (UTC)And yes, sex is about more than orgasms... but they're pretty damn important, in my opinion. If there is sex, and there is not at least one orgasm per person, then I myself would file that under "not-so-great sex" and resolve that next time better be soon and spectacular. (But maybe I am just spoiled by only shagging a girl?)